Terms
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Meetings
I am the service provider, so I get to decide the terms on which said services are provided.
In order to consistently provide services in keeping with my high standards, I need plenty of downtime and do not accept every request to meet, or respond to every enquiry I receive, to avoid burnout. Expect contact from me to be minimal prior to meeting, and my focus to be on you and only you throughout it.
Outcalls
My time and travel expenses are included in my advertised rates if the address I will be attending is within 10km of the CBD of the city in which we are meeting.
Outcalls to Australian addresses more than 10km from the CBD incur a $75 travel charge, payable in addition to my advertised rates.
The address you’d like me to attend must be provided in advance and we must have privacy (that is, you are home alone or the only person in your hotel room, unless you have disclosed any other attendee when submitting your request to meet). If I’ll be visiting you in a hotel room, please let me know your room number once you’ve checked in.
Services
All meetings are one-on-one unless agreed by me in advance. 2-on-1 meetings (where you arrange for the third person to join us) and group/party bookings incur an additional fee of $300 per additional person present per booking, even if they don’t intend to participate.
All listed services are offered at my sole discretion and will only be provided if all people present consent, me included. I am not required to consent to anything that I consider to be unsafe or likely to cause me injury, or is hazardous to body, health and/or sanity.
I do not provide unprotected/natural intercourse under any circumstances.
Not all sexual acts can be incorporated into our time together in all jurisdictions. If me being unable to perform a particular sexual act would be a dealbreaker for you, please disclose it when prompted to enter any service requests prior to submitting your request online.
If I won’t be able to accommodate your request due to your location or for some other reason, I will let you know and ask you to confirm whether you’d like to either proceed or cancel prior to sending you confirmation of our meeting.
Payments
My advertised rates apply to all meetings, regardless of whether sexual intercourse or “full service” is contemplated or occurs during our time spent together.
My fee is to be paid in full within the first 5 minutes of our meeting, and before sexual contact takes place.
If you’ll be paying in cash and prefer our encounter have a less transactional vibe, you can place your payment in an unsealed envelope and leave it on a surface where I can easily see it on arrival. If you’ll be paying via Beem you’re welcome to pay in advance if you’d like to but please mention this is your intention when I contact you to confirm our meeting so I know to keep an eye out for it.
In the (highly unlikely) event you change your mind and no longer want to proceed upon meeting me, please let me know at the outset as once payment is made, it is not refundable except at my sole discretion.
Payment methods
Preferred: cash; via the app Beem (my handle is @LLSydney)
Alternative methods (please note you must pay all fees and/or surcharges incurred in addition to my advertised rates): credit or debit card (including American Express and via Apple Pay); Bitcoin.
Please note: I do not accept payment via bank transfer/PayID/OSKO, gift cards or prepaid debit cards, foreign currency except where this has been arranged and agreed to by me in advance, or any other item in lieu of legal tender.
Deposit Policy
It is not my usual practice to requests clients to pay a deposit prior to confirming a meeting. However, occasionally I make an exception if I deem it appropriate in the circumstances.
For example, if you have previously not shown up to a confirmed meeting with me, are requesting to meet outside my usual working hours or purchase a specific outfit at your expense, I may require payment of some or all of my fee (or payment for any items I may agree to purchase at your expense for our meeting) prior to confirming my acceptance of your request.
Cancellations
My business, and therefore my livelihood, depend on my good health and reputation. If I need to cancel or postpone a confirmed meeting for any reason, I will give you as much notice as possible.
If you are feeling unwell or believe you might have a contagious illness or infection (be it sexually transmitted or otherwise), please do not attend your meeting with me. You can cancel or postpone free of charge, I just ask that you give me as much notice as possible.
If you don’t attend your meeting and fail to notify me you need to cancel or reschedule in advance, chances are I won’t agree to set aside further time to meet with you without a cogent reason or explanation from you as to why I should do so.
Sexual Health
Sex workers in New South Wales have lower rates of sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and better overall sexual health compared to the general population, as well as higher testing uptake. I’ve been attending the Sydney Sexual Health Clinic for many years now and am happy to discuss all things sexual health-related and answer any questions you might have at our meeting about my risk management practices if asked.
That being said, you are responsible for your sexual health just as I am responsible for mine, and it is important you understand that:
- seeing someone else’s anonymised test results or certificate gives you no protection whatsoever against STIs or contagious illnesses;
- People with an STI often have no visible symptoms and believe they are “clean” when they are not;
- Not all STIs are included in baseline testing, or are only screened for if clinically indicated or specifically requested;
- Some STIs have long incubation periods and are not detectable for several weeks or even months after exposure but are transmissible nonetheless; and
- The Australian STI Management Guidelines recommend anyone who is sexually active be tested at least once every 6-12 months, even if they always use condoms and only have one partner.
I don’t place any reliance on the assurances of others and neither should you. If you want peace of mind, or reassurance, get tested. Most Sexual Health Centres allow you to remain anonymous if requested.
Online Bookings
I request clients request to meet online via my website where possible.
You are required to provide a first name, email address and mobile number when submitting a request to meet. You will also be required to nominate your preferred contact method (SMS or email). I will respond via this contact method in the event I accept.
The email address you provide does not need to be valid if you elect to be contacted by SMS. Similarly, the name you provide can be an alias, however, I kindly request you use the name personal information (name and contact information) every time you submit a request.
If you submit multiple requests using different names, phone numbers and/or email addresses, each along with every subsequent request you make will be ignored/declined.
Availability
As my availability to meet at a specific date and time can be easily ascertained online, I rarely respond to enquiries made to me via SMS or email seeking information about my availability or to request a meeting.
Pending Requests
All requests are pending and should be treated as tentative until confirmed by me using your nominated contact method.
You will not receive an automated confirmation text or email after your request has been submitted. I review each request manually and only accept if I am available and willing to meet at the date and time you’ve specified.
Personal information
The contact details and other personal information of my clients is kept strictly confidential. I am the only person with access to information that is contained in my diary, website back-end (including plugins and database backups), email account, phone and the information contained therein.
I don’t have a newsletter or mailing list, so you won’t receive unsolicited spam from me.
Changes to meeting details
To view or change your meeting online in the Client Panel, the email address you provide when submitting your request to meet online must be valid or you will not receive the link which is sent to your nominated email address.
I request clients provide at least 2 hours’ notice when cancelling or rescheduling a meeting online. Alternatively, I can be notified by text or email as soon as it is practicable for you to do so.